My very own annual review 



10 things I'm proud of, care to celebrate, and/or recognize as meaningful.


  1. I wrote my first academic journal article.
  2. I published my first book chapter.
  3. I visited a cat cafe for the first time!
  4. I took my dad to the Cincinnati Pride Parade.
  5. I regularly kept a gratitude list.
  6. I started the hashtag #CatsAgainstBoston2024.
  7. I heard Eileen Myles read.
  8. I read Cheryl Strayed's book Tiny Beautiful Things.
  9. I attended the Civil Liberties and Public Policy conference.
  10.  I began volunteering on the Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders hotline.


  1. I travelled internationally, alone.
  2. I presented my own research at a conference.
  3. I worked as a teaching assistant.
  4. I took a class at the Fletcher School.
  5. I trained as an abortion doula.
  6. I wrote my first article published in print.
  7. I wrote two pieces for Bitch Magazine & RH Reality check.
  8. I ran my first 10k!
  9. I trained as a clinic escort in Boston.
  10. I spoke on a podcast.



I finished 2015 writing about a rad photo exhibit

Haven't had much of a chance to do freelance writing this year but fortunately I was able to finish the year with a few pieces about an exhibit that closed earlier this month at the Boston Children's Museum, Mimi's Family. I wrote about the exhibit for The Dig and Nylon.

As I mention in my coverage of the show, I'm eally thrilled to see this sort of opportunity for families to talk about gender and in a way that engages with children! It was fantastic to visit the museum and get a tour of the show with exhibit designer Margaret Middleton as well as and talk to photographer Matthew Clowney about what it was like to hang out with the trans grandparent Erica and her family. 

Recent coverage of the exhibit can also be found at Mombian and The Washington Post.



My first book chapter is out!

I'm pleased to note my first book chapter "The Revolutionary Possibilities of Online Trans and Queer Community" is now published! The chapter is part of the book Gender, Sex and Politics: In the Streets and Between the Sheets in the 21st Century. To take a look inside the book, visit the Taylor and Francis website here.




This exciting new book is essential for understanding sexuality and gender in the 21st century. Topics range widely, from sexting to sexual assault. Many chapters are deeply personal, but with broader social implications. This book will stimulate animated conversation and deep thinking; it is one of the most important books on gender and sexuality in the past 30 years.

-Tom Digby, Philosophy, Springfield College, and author of Love and War: How Militarism Shapes Sexuality and Romance

This sparkling book challenges us to pursue fresh critical thinking on feminist issues of exploitation and empowerment, pointing out how we can use constructive dissent rather than destructive disagreement -- a great addition to the canon.

-Loretta Ross, Former National Coordinator, SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective

In our insanely fast-paced, Twitter-trigger world, discussion of sexuality and gender too often consists solely of snarky knee-jerk statements that do nothing to contest dominant thinking. These essays, on the other hand, invite us to think and rethink about power, and for the best reason of all: so that we can equalize it. If you care about gender, sex, and politics, this book is for you.

- Leora Tanenbaum, author of I Am Not a Slut: Slut-Shaming in the Age of the Internet

This is a must read for academic and practical alike and should be in every college sociology and psychology course. The first chapter "Hollaback!" is an eye opener and makes me want to join the movement. The book goes on to unveil many truths we must all face.

-Kristin Beck, US Navy SEAL, Candidate for US Congress 2016

Forty years after the sex wars first captured popular imagination, Shira Tarrant makes it brilliantly clear that sex wars matter anew. In this edgy collection of truth-tellers, contributors invite readers to open their minds, hearts, and conversations. They redefine sexual literacy and challenge the very notion of taboo. Bridging theory, practice, and competing perspectives, the book unsettles and entices. As with the best in gender studies, it’s sure to hit a nerve.

-Deborah Siegel, PhD, author of Sisterhood, Interrupted: From Radical Women to Grrls Gone Wild



My doctoral student confession: I miss freelance writing

This semester I finish my second year of doctoral work and true story: I miss freelance writing.

The last article I wrote was published in December which seems like a world away for a freelance writer who was pitching editors several times a week regularly and everyday at one point. I wrote pitch letters in my head as a went to sleep and got to work on them when I woke up. Today that freelance writing energy is consumed with writing academic articles, conference preperation, classwork and a dissertation proposal as a doctoral student (not to mention having a relationship with friends and family and self-care) and it has me kinda bummed. 

The opportunity to take grad classes, work as a teaching assistant and write a dissertation as a funded student is amazing. I've met some kick ass faculty who have been at the forefront of bringing coversations about gender into the classroom. I've made connections at conferences I simply didn't have access to prior to becoming part of a doctoral program. I'm very passionate about my research; I love that I'm paid to research a topic I care about so deeply and my job is to develop those ideas into the best piece of research I can to make a contribution to this world. This is definitely a gift I never thought I'd have.

But I miss freelance writing! I want to take my curiosity and turn it into an article to put out in the world in a matter of weeks. I love being able to take issues I care about, pitch amazing publications I respect and write those stories. I appreciate getting feedback from an editor and shaping a piece of writing into something that we both mold into a final publication. I like seeing that dozens (occassionaly hundreds or thousands) of people have engaged with the interviews I collect from activists and academics. I get motivation to keep doing this work from the community of people, friends and strangers, who respond to something I've written. And dammit, I like that after years of writing for free my work is finally valued (read: paid) by a number of publications I respect immensely. 

My primary job after I defend my dissertation proposal at some point this year will be to write a dissertation. There are many reasons to place my dissertation as the first priortiy, not the least of which is the fact that my funding ends after three years in the program (as in, one year after I finish classes this May). Realistically I need to put the best of my writing energy into researching and writing a dissertation.

One of the criticisms of academic writing is that no one reads it. Some people are asking if academics should be writing for popular media. From where I stand as a writer, a queer, a feminist, and an activist I can truly appreciate the education and experience in academic writing and teaching I'm recieving now and at the same time acknowledge I can't wait to be pitching popular media again. I engage on Twitter everyday and promote writing by amazing writers for popular media platforms who I've learned so much from and have enjoyed being in community with as a freelance writer.

When I began my doctoral program I always knew I wanted to continue to write for popular media, but for now that writing will have to wait.



Recognize the LGBT community as the missing group of victims in conflict-related violence

This month the website Women Under Siege published my piece about gender-based violence targeted against LGBT individuals. I originally started working on the story as an Op-Ed in my Gender, Marginalization and Health course, a Gender Consortium of Women's Studies class team taught at MIT by faculty from three different universities with different backgrounds. The GCWS courses offer an amazing opporunity to study with faculity and students from many different Boston-based institutions so I highly recommend you take one should you have the opportunity!

Here is an excerpt from "The missing group of conflict-related victims":

Iraq is just one of eight countries in which homosexuality is punishable by death. More than half of those nations, including Iraq, Iran, and Nigeria, qualify as conflict and post-conflict countries. Yet it’s rare to see media mention of this kind of violence, which is also gender-based, when it covers war and iniquities. Little has been formulated in the way of action plans to stop this type of violence, either, despite efforts like those of the commission and organizations like MADRE. To date, there’s not much out there in terms of a nation’s stepping up to respond to this violence in Iraq or elsewhere around the globe. International protection measures to address LGBT-targeted violence—which, as in Leyla’s case, can be state-sponsored—require a response that recognizes that gender-based violence includes cases like this.

I encourage readers to read this and other pieces on the Women Under Siege website, a Women's Media Center "journalism project that investigates how rape and other forms of sexualized violence are used as tools in genocide and conflict throughout the 20th century and into the 21st."